Joy of Sex : The Timeless Guide to Lovemaking (9780307452139) by Comfort Alex

Author:Comfort, Alex [Comfort, Alex]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 978-0-307-45213-9
Publisher: Random House Digital
Published: 2012-06-05T16:00:00+00:00

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Plan your menus. Nobody wants a seven-course meal every time. At least 75 percent of really rewarding sex will be your absolutely straight, bedtime or morning pattern. For longer sessions you need to be rested – weekends, holidays, and special occasions on impulse. If you make up your mind that over the course of time you will try everything and have sex everywhere, the occasions will arise: when you feel one coming on, or know you will have the opportunity, plan together – with this book if you like – but don’t expect necessarily to keep to what you outlined. Stick to it sometimes, however, so you don’t miss things. Most couples will strike out perhaps a third of our suggestions as not turning them on, and pick up three or four headed “we must try that,” if they haven’t already.

Her timing and his may vary, with hers typically demanding a long lead-in time. So start with hand or mouth work for her, move on to vaginal sex, then use mouth work to get a further erection – maybe have a final orgasm by masturbating together. Prolonged spinouts involving make-believe, experiments, and so on often go best with ample time – positions needing a very hard erection go best on waking fresh. Unlike a man, an untired and responsive woman can typically take more than one orgasm, but make the first one the easiest for her, unless her pattern is one overwhelming orgasm only – if so, keep it for last (see come again).

Varying times of day is well worthwhile, but depends on your commitments and how easily you can get some privacy or clear your mind of other things. Try never to put it off if you both want it, except to “save up” for something. Planning and thinking about sex to come is part of love. So is lying together in complete luxury afterwards.

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